Everything is fair in love and war, they say ...

War kills thousands, and thousands live only for love...

But there are wars that gives lives to thousands, and there is love that kills many...

When a war is evaluated, people talk of the ends and the means. Why not in love ? Is love not a war ? And is all war not for something the people waging it love ?

And then they say everyone loses in a war, and everyone gains in love...

Ha!

What do they know of love or of war that of gains or losses think ?
What do they live that for the end live ?

An objective - a process - a desired outcome...

Is that all ?